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Can you really stay happily ever after in a marriage?

A great marriage is always something you will have to work at. And it is not only you. Both of the partners need to be willing to work at it. You will need lots of tender loving care to keep your relationship fresh and exciting. The chances that your relationship will be able to survive are a lot higher if both of you are ready to give and receive.

8 Tips on how to make your marriage work:

1. Learn how to communicate effectively. It doesn't matter if you just got married or if it has been a long time since you two started out - this will build a strong relationship. Try to listen to your partner to be certain that you are understanding what they are telling you. Always have the courtesy to give your full attention to the conversation when your are talking to each other. Look at your partner in the eyes when they are speaking to help you really understand them. Don't just hear. Acknowledge that what has been said is clearly understood.

2. Never assume you know how your partner feels about anything. Just because you like something don't volunteer them to do it with you. ASK! Always give them the courtesy to see if they want to do it.

3. Acknowledge when your partner does something nice. When you see him/her doing something nice, tell them - I got you! Then go ahead and tell them how much you appreciate it that they have been doing such a wonderful thing. A little appreciation goes a long way and you will be amazed about the results. Every time when you show your partner that they are making you happy, they will be doing kind things again and again to receive your recognition.

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4. Do something together every week that you both enjoy. Go to the theater, dancing, go biking, work out together, the options are endless. Find any interests that you can share and do these things often.

5. Be your partner's best friend. When they are working on something they really want, always cheer them on. Be there for them when they need it and provide a shoulder to cry on if necessary. Reveal your dreams to them, share your goals and try to work together. When the accomplish something, always let them know that your are proud of them.

6. Never neglect your partner. Don't get so wrapped up in your own life that you completely forget the everyday niceties. Hug and kiss them daily. Never spend the weekend on the TV or with your friends only. Make it a point to do something each weekend with your partner and you will grow closer together and have more in common to talk about.

7. It is vital for your relationship that you "never go to bed angry", sometimes this might seem impossible but it is necessary. It will become a lot easier for your anger to come to a full boil when you let it simmer long enough. It will never be possible to solve problems by just going to bed or leaving the house to avoid them. If you learn to agree to disagree when needed, you will be able to keep the peace. This will specifically be helpful with smaller problems. You need to make sure though that you really agree to disagree. Don't waste time being angry about the small things.

8. There is nothing wrong with admitting that you are wrong. If you are wrong, admit it. Not doing this because of your pride will not help you in any way and a marriage going wrong is a much higher price to pay.

You can live together in harmony despite your individual differences. Exercise the points above and make sure you clear all disharmony before going to bed.

Love and cherish the other. Build up a strong bond by being honest and loving with the other.

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